A sense of community in an unusual place

I recently started to blog again and this time added the Facebook page/Twitter account component. I thought it would be a great outlet to laugh, celebrate and complain about things most of my friends, coworkers and family cannot understand or relate to.

The one thing I wasn't expecting was to find such a sense of community. I am not always the most social person. I don't like girls night outs, book clubs, luncheon pot lucks at work, neighborhood gatherings, etc. For a good time I enjoy a long run (alone) or a night out with my husband enjoying a great dinner or a concert. I have great friends, but I like to keep my circle small. I like to chat when I am at the gym, school, or other social events, but I really don't want to share in small talk or the other conversations as much as everyone else seems to. There is nothing wrong with any of the above, but they are really just not my thing and they never have been. I am happy with things the way they are as it is the quality, not quantity of conversations and people that matter.

With that being said, the sense of community found while creating this new blog and Facebook page has been surprisingly gratifying in a way I did not expect. I am laughing at the fact that other folks know as much about poop as I do, laugh at the fact their children prefer not to wear clothes, and are equally as sleep deprived as I. I knew this writing and sharing would be cathartic for me, but I didn't think that I would relish the recurring visitors, nor would frequent the same pages I so enjoy. I have never been a big Facebook person who posts pictures of their food or tells about every moment of their day, but I have posted more on my page in the last month than I have on my personal page since it began.

My interest started by reading what other people post and write about. I have always enjoyed following others- Effin' Autism, Autism Hippie, Autism with a side of fries, Autism Daddy and Mutha Lovin' Autism are a few of my favorites. I like them all for different reasons whether I agree with what they say or not. The authors of these pages/blogs are a part of a very important community that I have started to hold near and dear.

I used to go to a support group or two and they were wonderful. I have many cherished friendships that have developed as a result. They are fantastic and I am grateful to have some autism moms on my local team. This virtual support is equally valuable and I am glad I have arrived. A little late to the party, but better than not coming at all.

Gotta go, I have another naked kiddo to chase down!