Although parenting two children with autism is challenging, I am thankful for their health and happiness the same way I would if there was no diagnosis. Parenting is challenging, but I can only imagine how hard it is to be them and struggle with the things that come so naturally for us.
I am thankful that our journey has taught me to be grateful for each day and celebrate the milestones they work so hard to achieve. Trying new foods and tolerating loud noises is a daily challenge for them both and when they are still smiling at the end of each day, I am beaming with pride and hope for more successes to come. Overcoming the sensory overload must be exhausting and confusing for them at times. When this leads to a need for tickles and hugs, I find a lump in my throat as I hang on tight. I am grateful they can seek out what they need. They have never said, "I love you," but I cherish the moments when my son says,"Lay down please," which is his way of saying, " sit by me." I will play the "stinky foot game" as long as my daughter likes and her laughter is infectious. Sure it's considered a baby or toddler game, but when my 9 year old sticks her feet in my face with a smile, I will always comply. These moments are fleeting and I am grateful for them all.
I am grateful for not only their developmental success, but also for the lessons I have learned. I don't know that I would appreciate the little things in life if we didn't have the challenges autism has thrown our way.
As I always say, we measure success in smiles and laughter and I am grateful for the abundance we have!
